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Language & Oral Tradition / Re: what's in a name?
« on: November 08, 2011, 11:06:37 AM »
I always hated being called by my given first name, but always loved my middle name, so I began to use my middle name at the age of 21. I feel like it's very important to at least be able to tolerate the sound of the name people use for you, if not actually enjoy it.

When my first marriage was breaking up (I was 25), I decided I wanted my own last name, and I wanted it to come from the women in my family. Since as far back as you go, a woman's maiden name will come from a man, I took the first name of my mother and her mother (happened to have the same name!) and used a variation to be my last name.  Changed it legally, just so I never had to hear about my original name as an alias or anything.

I feel like it relates to rewilding in that I took control over my life, following through on a strong impulse and doing what I deeply felt needed to be done regardless of what society or my family or friends or anyone else thought. I feel like rewilding is like this at times, when we have to step outside the human constructs of what is normal/acceptable and take action to support our true natures.

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Common Misconceptions / Re: Agriculture: villain or boon companion?
« on: November 02, 2011, 06:33:01 AM »
So cultivation in any form is a no-no in rewilding? Is that why this thread was flushed?

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Common Misconceptions / Re: Agriculture: villain or boon companion?
« on: November 01, 2011, 03:08:59 PM »
Wow, what a thoughtful, intelligent article! "Cultivation is possible without domestication." Example: I started to clear out everything that isn't blackberry bramble from a patch of land behind my house, because my husband enjoys blackberries.  The blackberries were growing there anyway, and now, presumably, they can go nuts since the whole patch has somehow *magically* become theirs. Am I cultivating? Domesticating? Unnaturally selecting? Who knows.

I'm going to try to carve out some time to check out more of your blog, because the other article titles are quite tantalizing! And you obviously spend a lot of time researching and thinking them through.

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Your blog is fantastic, Glenn, I'll definitely be back to read more.

If not gratitude, then at least a keen eye on the lookout for what's good, useful, advantageous and/or satisfactory. I think in the wild we'd have to be always mindful of what we had that was essential to our survival and appreciate it through appropriate upkeep. In civilization things are either disposable, easily reacquired, serviced by a "professional," or otherwise taken care of so that we can just "sit back and enjoy." If the only way we can stay active in the maintenance of the good things in our life is to say thanks, then that's probably at least a small step in the right direction.

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Rewilding Mind & Heart / Re: Strangers and Community
« on: October 18, 2011, 01:42:50 PM »
Excellent questions.  I'm going to let them simmer a bit, but my instant reaction is: "saving humanity" is a completely fictitious project.  In the wild, we would certainly consider individually each human in front of us: friend, foe, potential mate, do they need something we can spare, do they have something to trade, etc. But this "humanity" idea that we hear spoken of so often, what does it even represent?

It definitely relates to the trash conversation for me, because when I pick up trash, it's because I feel a connection to the place that's been trashed, either by long association or through love at first sight, and I want to honor that connection through meaningful action. Similarly, I love to help a person I see in need, whether it's a member of my family or a stranger I encounter who is struggling with something I'm able to help with. However, when it's an impersonal effort of "send money to help so-and-so" then it feels like some kind of game I'm being guilt-tripped into playing.

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Visions of the Rewilding Renaissance / Re: Picking up trash
« on: October 18, 2011, 07:22:33 AM »
...For me, when I'm out hiking and enjoying the stream, the birds, the smell of humus, the sun filtering through the trees, it just feels profoundly disrespectful to leave any trash I encounter.  I feel compelled to remove it. My own personal neurosis, I guess! :)

Not just your neurosis, Mama Love.

I enjoy some tobacco under a poor, civilised-restrained tree in the office complex where I work, every day.
And every day, after greeting the tree and bestowing a stream of smoke upon it, I look at the litter of dog ends, bubble gum and plastic which humans have thrown down around my arboreal friend. This, although there is a bin less than a metre away.

When I have finished my smoke and my visit, I usually pick up the litter.

Inspiring to know I'm not the only one who befriends trees!

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Visions of the Rewilding Renaissance / Re: Picking up trash
« on: October 17, 2011, 11:21:00 AM »
If you feel inspired to do so, I think that picking up trash helps others to see the world as whole and healthy, without the distractions of others' rubbish.

True.  However, the downside of that is if everything around us looks nice, we can easily forget that the earth isn't whole and healthy, but is in fact sickening and dying from what modern civilization is doing.  In that respect, it could be a very good thing (to prevent complacency) if everyone had to see the true, naked results of the modern way of life, rather than shuttling it all off to landfills and toxic waste dumps. 

I believe that every inch of the earth is sacred ground, and that picking up trash doesn't "clean" the earth, it just cleans that spot by moving the trash to another place.  Thinking about what is best for the land, I've concluded that it is slightly better to keep the trash contained in a place that is already contaminated with it (a landfill) rather than having it dispersed over the landscape and affecting wide swaths of it (although at a MUCH lower level).  I think the difference is pretty slight, however.

The whole concept of "waste", of "throwing something away", is fictitious (delusional).  There is no "away" on a finite planet, and there is no "waste" in the cycle of life.  Everything natural is food for something else.  In all of earth's history, only modern humans have broken the cycle by creating objects and materials that take countless years to break down to the point (essentially, the molecular level) where they can once again become food for the cycle of life.

You make some great points I hadn't thought of.  Upon reflection, it makes a lot of sense for people to have to see the damage that's being done. Now that you mention it, I am reminded of the tactic used by logging companies in Mendocino County, who left a veil of standing trees along the roads to hide the huge tracts of decimated forest. We definitely should not hide the results of human destruction.

On the other hand, it's also good for people to get a chance to see the inspiring beauty of an untrashed wilderness.  Hopefully we'd have some of both, to give people the chance to make their choice.

For me, when I'm out hiking and enjoying the stream, the birds, the smell of humus, the sun filtering through the trees, it just feels profoundly disrespectful to leave any trash I encounter.  I feel compelled to remove it. My own personal neurosis, I guess! :)

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Visions of the Rewilding Renaissance / Re: Rewild Wall Street!
« on: October 17, 2011, 11:11:51 AM »
I think it helps to erode the dominant paradigm, which keeps the unimaginative trapped in their "this is how it's always been" rut. The way I understand it, rewilding involves a huge shift in perspective, new mental habits, a breaking out of the concretized reality we've always assumed to be the "only way." For the general population to see others in action, speaking, marching, dreaming, plotting, participating in their own destiny, might inspire a permanent shift away from civilization as we've known it.

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Visions of the Rewilding Renaissance / Re: Vision in a Garden
« on: October 12, 2011, 11:46:12 AM »

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If pop culture presents itself as a bridge from where the kid is at to a healthier place, then by all means.  I think it is good to inspire people by any means necessary, and if that means speaking in a language they can understand, then that's a good thing. I see some parents limiting their kids with stories and pop culture characters, so be sure to make it open ended. For example, my son will ask me something like, "do vampires fly?" and when confronted by this kind of question, I'll always respond that it's something someone made up, and he can imagine it as he chooses. I guess my point is, if Dora gets the child into the forest, great, but don't let Dora dictate what happens in the forest. That's my take on it, anyway.

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The Fabulous Forager / Re: Going without mirrors
« on: October 10, 2011, 03:35:05 PM »
I'd love to go without a mirror, personally, and I wouldn't mind hair grooming or maybe some kind of special makeup/ face painting for a festival or something, but I'd love it if we could just forgo daily makeup and shaving. I'd like to be accepted for how my body is naturally (although I'm happy to accommodate a need for cleanliness) and not have to worry about being judged poorly for failing to approximate a fictitious image of beauty.

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Visions of the Rewilding Renaissance / Vision in a Garden
« on: October 10, 2011, 09:00:14 AM »
I'd like to share this story with the group. I wrote it several years ago, when my experience with rewilding was beginning to emerge. I welcome any feedback.

The Waterstone's Yard
April 24, 3 p.m.

We are sitting in the unmown grass in the warm afternoon sun, nibbling the oregano, peppermint and lemon balm that grow around a small maple tree.  Mr. Waterstone tells me that he has eaten leaves and flowers off every kind of plant.  I list things I've heard are deadly poisonous - foxglove, nightshade, poinsettia.  He says he doesn't know about poinsettia, but he's eaten the other two.  I want to ask him what kind of trip he had afterwards, but I am too busy absorbing this new information.

I was raised to be afraid.  Everything was known to be poisonous, dirty, and/or evil, including my own body, my own thoughts.  The world was out to get me.  As a child I made mud pies in the yard, using ice plant for green beans and dandelion flowers for garnish, but I knew never to put anything in my mouth.

Now here I am carefully plucking a small oval leaf, feeling the bright mint oil wake up my tongue, smelling its sharpness on my fingers.  I see all kinds of crawling things among the small stems and leaves, including quick spiders and multi-colored beetles.  I forget my dislike of insects as I succumb to the urge to snuggle into the greenness, melting down into the lushness, being taken over, disappearing.  The breeze will tangle my hair so that I am woven into the grass, the sun will bake my skin so that I am the color of the soil.  My fingernails will grow like roots into the ground, holding fast to deep set rock.  My lips, nostrils, eyelids, earlobes will tingle with the touch of the light pulling up, stretching up, thinning my skin into delicate leaf shapes to photosynthesize food to feed my spine that turns tough and woody, lying along the ground like a rope of ivy vine.  I will be wildness, free and unafraid in the sanctuary of this untamed garden.

Suddenly I sit up.  I was on an errand run before I stopped off here.  I must get to the bank before it closes, drop off some packages at the post office, pick up some papers from the school.  My relaxed body remembers its form and dimensions as I tense muscles to stand.  I say goodbye.

As I drive away, window down to let in air, my body may be the same, but my mind has metamorphosed just enough so that all the green life I see, I recognize as kin.



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Social Technology / Re: Self-Reflection
« on: October 10, 2011, 05:53:22 AM »
What does it mean to deal honestly and clearly with people?




This is a question that torments me ceaselessly. I find myself exhausted with the effort of walking the tightrope, balancing between the extremes of becoming the false entity I've been taught is my proper role and becoming my true self. Lately the odd thought keeps running through my mind, "I will just tattoo my face and be done with it." My logical self tells me that this permanent sign to the world would force people to take me as I am and not how they imagine me, and it would force my own self soul to stay on my true path and never look back.

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Social Technology / Re: deepening relationships
« on: October 10, 2011, 05:39:28 AM »
Gatherings involving food can cultivate a deeper bond between individuals and the group in general. When I waited tables I came to understand that many of the customers were hungry not only for food but for the social setting, to be fed and seen and to interact with others, even though it was heartlessly commercial, but it was perhaps their only opportunity to be part of a "feast" of sorts. It made me quite sad and I tried to be mindful of this need as I interacted with them, to feed this part of their experience. Ideally of course individuals would be part of a tribe gathering around the spoils of the hunt or some other reason to join together and feast. Those of us still living in civilization could start small with neighborhood potlucks or even just inviting friends over for a meal.

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I feel like my kids have the most fun playing with things like sticks, rocks, digging in the dirt, having some buckets or puddles of water to mess with, finding and messing with bugs, doing things with leaves (ripping, stacking, etc.) It's the simple yard stuff that best grabs their attention and feeds their imagination.

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